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Meet This Month’s Posse!!

We are so stoked to have April Flores, Stella Nova, and Cash Calamity joining the Pussy Posse on March 28th at the Brooklyn Art Haus!!

Fatty Delicious herself, April Flores, will be joining the Double P as our special guest! April is a fat model, performer, and Intimacy Coordinator with a cult-like following. In her bright career, she has appeared in hundreds of films, books, and magazines.

The Celestial Explosion of Burlesque, Stella Nova, will fill the coveted Posse spot of our featured performer!! Stella is NYC’s resident Hip-Hop burlesque artist, the producer of The Nova Experiment, an NYC show collective that explores diversity and expression within nightlife, and the co-founder of Boombox Burlesque: A Hip-Hop Burlesque Festival.

This year, we’ve added a new position in the Double P! Cash Calamity will be dazzling guests as our new pre-show go-go dancer and show kitten! Cash, also known as Zaddy Cash, is a Philadelphia-based queer, kinky, gender-bending erotic burlesque performer, dancer, and host.

Get your tickets today and come bask in the glory of the Double P on March 28th at the Brooklyn Art Hause!

Sex Ed A Go Go is Back with Quarterly Shows at the Brooklyn Art Haus!!

New York’s ONLY sex ed talk show and burlesque revue, hosted by the one and only Dirty Lola, is now at the Brooklyn Art Haus in Williamsburg, Brooklyn!

Starting March 28th, Sex Ed A Go Go is officially returning with quarterly shows all of 2024! We’re bringing our signature blend of comedy, education, and burlesque to Williamsburg at the brand-new Brooklyn Art Haus! We are so excited to christen our new home, and we hope you can make it out to celebrate with us!

Grab a friend and join Lola and The Pussy Posse for a night of fun, sex talk, and New York’s finest burlesque and go-go dancers! This month Fatty Delicious herself, April Flores, and The Celestial Explosion of Burlesque, Stella Nova, will be joining the Pussy Posse, and we’ll have Cash Calamity on the go-go stage!

We’ll be raffling off two Lucious prize bags filled with products from my favorite brands. Everyone goes home with goodies, and our VIP guests will receive a sexy swag bag! 

Grab your tickets HERE!!

Meet Our Headliner Sponsor Blush!!

Sex Ed A Go Go returned to NY on September 21st, thanks in part to the generous folks at Blush! Blush is one of my favorite brands to work with because they carry a vast array of quality products at prices that make them affordable and, most importantly, accessible. I’m also a huge fan of their mission; “The Blush philosophy is that all bodies are beautiful, worthy, and deserving of celebration and pleasure. Our team combines innovation and creativity to create pleasure products that fit your desires while meeting our high health and wellness standards. Price, quality, and your experience are our highest priority.” They fulfill this mission by supporting various organizations like the Woodhull Freedom Summit, The Ali Forney Center, and OneTreePlanted.org.  I love a brand doing good while helping folks feel good!

You can find their amazing products at a sex shop near you or check out their full line of products on BlushVibe.com. Enter code DIRTYLOLA20 to get 20% off your purchase!

Next Show!!! August 28th @ CAVEAT!!!

Get empowered, get sexy, and get going live in New York City!!!

Welcome to New York’s ONLY sex and body positive live talk and variety show hybrid, hosted by the indomitable Dirty Lola.

Sex Ed A Go-Go is the perfect place for adults to ask frank questions and hear real conversations about bodies, fetishes, relationships, and other sex-related subjects from sex education and sex industry professionals. Grab a friend and join Lola and her Pussy Posse at their brand new home Caveat!! Get your questions answered and check out New York’s finest burlesque and go-go dancers all at the same time!

This month Allison Moon and Fox Squire will be joining the Pussy Posse!!


21 A Clinton Street Btwn Stanton & Houston

August 28th @ 6:30pm

Get Tickets Here!

$18 Early Bird

$22 At The Door

Make sure you have lots of singles for our Drag King Supreme and for our awesome raffle B-Vibe!!

Not Just Another Dating Site: #Open

There was a time when I would go out and meet people at parties or at the bar, but as I’ve gotten older and busier dating apps have become my main pipeline to meeting new folks. I’ve invested a lot of time in crafting the perfect profile and tried my best to communicate who I am and all of the intersections of my identities using the very narrow parameters most of these dating sites provide.   While I think I’ve done a pretty good job at representing myself none of the dating sites I’ve joined over the years made it easy. As if It is ‘t already ROUGH out there in the dating world.

Then, there was #Open. A brand new sex-positive dating site that is dedicated to being inclusive and diverse. Seriously. When I created my profile I was ready to just copy and paste the same old description and struggle to check boxes for the same narrow categories you see on other dating apps, but I was pleasantly surprised. #Open was nothing like the other apps. Not only do they have 24 options for gender, 23 options for sexual orientation, and 10 options for relationship styles but they also allow you to create partnered profiles for all the different ways we link together. I also really enjoyed not having to fill in all of this information about my body. It just made the whole process a lot less stressful.

By the time I finished setting up my profile, I realized that #Open wasn’t just giving lip service to being a more diverse and inclusive site. They welcome everyone to join, but their focus is to create a safer space for people of color; LGBTQIA folks; kinky people; trans, genderqueer, and non-binary folks; disabled folks; people of all gender identities and expressions, sexual orientations, body sizes, abilities, and relationship styles. They are working to create a space where folks feel seen in all of their identities. 

If you’re tired of trying to fit yourself in a bunch of tiny boxes on dating sites or just don’t feel seen or represented you should give #Open a try. I’m there! Come and find me!


Sex Ed A Go-Go is Going to Playground!!!


Sex Ed A Go-Go is heading to Canada and we’re bringing out magical sexy shenanigans to the Playground Conference in Toronto on February 24th!! It is AMAZING to be taking our show back on the road to such an awesome conference. We are especially stoked about our line up. We have our very first all Canadian Pussy Posse!!!  Luna Matatas, Taylor Mace, and Zyra Lee Vanity will be joining Lola on stage as we take over the Playground Conference for the very first time!!!

We hope to see you there!!

Dirty Lola is Heading to Catalyst Con!!!

Dirty Lola is returning to Catalyst Con this September 15th -17th with events and talks all weekend long!!

Lola is kicking off the unofficial first night of the conference with CCon A Go-Go: A Welcome Q&A! If it’s your first time at CatalystCon, you’re a wee bit shy or you just want to hang out with awesome folks join CatalystCon alumni Dirty Lola, Katie Mack, and Zyra Lee for an evening of con survival tips, laughter, and PRIZES!!

Friday morning join Lola for Get Booked: Everything You Need to Know about Marketing your Workshops and Events. She will guide you through the process of finding the shop or venue that fits your teaching style and needs, the proper way to reach out to venues, and everything you need to know about putting together and submitting your workshop or event proposal. She will also give you tips and resources that will help shops and venues market your event and advice from other workshop coordinators from around the country. This workshop requires a separate registration. You don’t have to be attending the conference to attend the talk.

Saturday you’ll have two chances to hear Lola speak. She’ll be presenting Femme as Fuck: The Devaluation of Femininity Within The Feminist Movement with Antoinette Patterson and Rebecca Hiles and Behind The Curtain: Running Multiple Day Events And Coming Out Sane with Cathy Vartuli and Dee Dennis.

Sunday Lola will close out her west coast tour by joining Dr. Liz Powell and Cathy Vartuli for Shame, Perfectionism, and Redemption: How Our Community Can Clean Things Up, Restore Justice, and Heal.

There’s still time to register for Catalyst Con and catch Lola and other amazing folks share their knowledge! It’s definitely going to be a memorable weekend!

Toys We Adore: The b-Vibe Novice Plug

When the folks at b-vibe asked if I wanted to test out their new Novice Plug I hesitated.  I am by no means an anal newbie. I outgrew my trusty beginner’s plug long ago and replaced it with a more substantial model once it refused to stay anchored between my cheeks.  So how would the Novice Plug fair against my well season butthole?  Would it stay in place? Could I still enjoy a beginner’s sized plug after all this time? I decided to give it a try.

When I opened the Novice plug it looked tiny in its neat little box and even smaller in my hand.  After pairing it to the wireless remote I washed it up with my favorite mild soap and grabbed my go to water based booty lube. It slipped in without a problem and the base nestled comfortably between my ample globes.  It was time for testing!

I decided that a good way to test the staying power of the Novice Plug would be to wear it around the house while I did a few chores.  I chose activities that involved a lot of moving around, bending over, and squatting. To my surprise, it stayed snugly in place while I scrubbed the bathtub, walked up and down stairs doing laundry and mopped the kitchen floor, even while on the highest speed.  During the two hours, I wore the plug I only had to stop once to adjust it. A definite win in my book and an interesting afternoon of chores thanks to the 6 intensity levels and 15 vibration patterns.

In the end (ha ha) I really enjoyed the Novice Plug. The powerful vibrations made up for what it lacks in size, and its pleasing shape keeps it from slipping out of place.  The base is big enough to anchor it but small enough to wear comfortably for a long period of time, unlike my larger non-vibrating plug. I didn’t play around with the little remote much, but I found it easy to use and it has a decent range of about 30 feet. That will definitely come in handy during partnered play.

I would definitely recommend this plug to newbies and experienced anal players alike. It’s small enough for a beginner, but strong enough to give those with experience a new thrill. If you prefer more girth to go along with your vibration don’t  worry, B-vibe also offers the Trio and Rimming Plugs.


Meet October’s Special Guest, Bastard Keith!!

Bastard Keith

Bastard Keith is a burlesque MC, singer, writer and gadabout. He is the inventor of “Burletiquette.” With his partner Rosebud, he founded The Sophisticates, the only burlesque show to be thrown out of the Plaza Hotel for indecency. He is the regular MC for DUMBO Burlesque. He hosts frequently at the Slipper Room and appears in various shows throughout New York and worldwide, from Vancouver to Helsinki. He has emceed large events for Vice and Bacardi.

You can meet Keith and the rest of the Pussy Posse at Otto’s Shrunken Head on October 6th!

NEXT SHOW!!! Thursday, October 6th @ Otto’s Shrunken Head!

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Do you like sex, go-go dancing and funny ladies with amazing cleavage? Then you should definitely join us for the next installment of Sex Ed. A Go-Go at Otto’s Shrunken Head!!!

Sex Ed. A-Go-Go is one part ADULT sex Q & A; one part go-go revue. Once a month Dirty Lola and The Pussy Posse take the stage to openly and honestly answer your anonymous questions about sex, sexuality, and relationships in a fun and entertaining way. In between the sex talk we showcase some of NY’s hottest go-go and burlesque performers doing their thing.

Join us at Otto’s Shrunken Head, and get ready to be educated and titillated by Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse!!

We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts ( or loins) desires!!

This month burlesque MC, writer, and all around sexy motherfucker, Bastard Keith will be joining the Pussy Posse along with the ethereal Mandarine Moon-Fly!!! We’re going to talk about any and everything your little hearts ( or loins) desires!!

$7 Early Bird (BUY TICKETS HERE )

$10 At The Door

2 Drink Minimum

Make sure you have lots of singles for our giver of go-go goodness, Mandarine Moon-Fly and for our awesome raffle sponsored by BLEWIT!!